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after I put the kids to bed, my wife is in bed, laying on her side and reading from her phone. I need to turn her on, what do I do?

Answer from our relationship trained AI Couple Coach:


April 3, 2024

Initiating intimacy with your wife requires sensitivity, communication, and mutual consent. Start by creating a conducive environment for connection and relaxation, such as dimming the lights, playing soothing music, or engaging in light conversation. Express your desire for intimacy openly and respectfully, acknowledging her mood and preferences. Consider incorporating sensual touch or massage to enhance relaxation and arousal. Explore her desires and fantasies through open communication and active listening. Remember to prioritize her comfort and pleasure throughout the experience, and be receptive to her cues and feedback. Ultimately, the key to turning her on lies in creating a safe, loving, and mutually satisfying environment for intimacy and connection.


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