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My boyfriend never listens to me. I can't even explain how a relationship should be. What should I do?

Answer from our relationship trained AI Couple Coach:


March 10, 2024

Feeling unheard in a relationship can be frustrating. Start by expressing your feelings to your boyfriend in a calm and non-confrontational manner. Use "I" statements to convey how his lack of listening impacts you emotionally. Avoid blaming or criticizing him; instead, focus on the importance of active listening and mutual respect in a healthy relationship. Encourage him to practice active listening skills, such as maintaining eye contact, paraphrasing, and validating your feelings. Set aside dedicated time for open and honest communication without distractions. Consider seeking couples therapy to address communication barriers and develop effective strategies for improving mutual understanding and connection in the relationship.


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