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Why do exes only want to take me back when I'm doing well for myself

Answer from our relationship expert:

Ex-partners may seek reconciliation when they observe positive changes or success in your life, as it can evoke feelings of regret, nostalgia, or admiration. When someone sees you thriving and achieving personal growth, it may challenge their previous perceptions or remind them of what they once valued in the relationship. However, it's essential to approach such situations with caution and discernment, considering whether reconciliation aligns with your current needs and goals. Reflect on the reasons for the breakup, assess whether underlying issues have been addressed, and evaluate whether the relationship is built on genuine compatibility and mutual respect. Communicate openly with your ex-partner about your feelings, boundaries, and expectations moving forward. Remember to prioritize your well-being and happiness above external validation or pressure to reconcile. By honoring your needs and values, you can make empowered decisions that align with your personal growth and emotional fulfillment.



March 27, 2024

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