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would you rather, for couples 🤔

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46 rounds in this deck

Impossible choices, revealing answers. Four decks of dilemmas written for two people building a life: silly hypotheticals, us-two trade-offs, travel dreams, and a spicy shelf.

would you rather questions for couples

A sampler from each deck. Read them at dinner and see which ones start a debate.

🎉 Fun

  • Always know what I'm thinking or never be able to lie to me?
  • Fight one horse-sized duck together or fight a hundred duck-sized horses together?
  • Only communicate in song lyrics for a day or only communicate in movie quotes for a week?
  • Have a rewind button for our arguments or have a pause button for our best moments?
  • Swap wardrobes for a week or swap phones for a day?
  • Live in a treehouse we built or live on a houseboat we can't drive?

💞 Us Two

  • A partner who texts back instantly or a partner who gives world-class hugs?
  • Know every detail of each other's past or start completely fresh with zero history?
  • Weekly date night, planned by me forever or monthly surprise trip, planned by you forever?
  • Never argue again but never debate playfully either or keep the playful debates and the occasional real one?
  • Read my old diary or let me read yours?
  • Cook together every night or never do dishes again?

✈️ Travel & Future

  • Van life for a year or one overwater villa month?
  • City that never sleeps or village where everyone knows us?
  • Twenty weekend trips or one epic month-long expedition?
  • Honeymoon we can't afford yet or tiny apartment that's fully ours now?
  • Chase summer around the world or cozy winters, always, together?
  • Retire by the sea or retire in the mountains?

🌶️ Spicy

  • A slow dance in the dark or a long kiss in the rain?
  • Breakfast in bed or midnight snack run in pajamas?
  • Relive our first kiss or fast-forward to our next one?
  • A love letter I handwrote or a voice note I recorded at 2am?
  • Hotel night, no plans or home night, phones off?
  • You plan date night, I dress for it or i plan date night, you dress for it?

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Read the dilemma, both answer at the same time (count of three works), then defend your pick. The defending is the game. If you agree instantly, the next round is a lightning round - no thinking allowed.

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