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couples trivia: the about-us pub quiz

Pub quiz format, but every question is about you two. Five themed rounds, real scoring, optional double-date mode where couples compete - the game that settles who actually pays attention (and creates the evidence).

by An Nayal & the Flamme team ยท updated July 2026

how to run couples trivia

step 1

Pick the format

Duo mode: alternate guessing about each other, partner judges. Double-date mode: couples answer about their own partner simultaneously; most confirmed answers wins the table.

step 2

Play five rounds

Origins (your story), Favorites, Habits & Quirks, Feelings, Future - ten questions each below, escalating intimacy by design.

step 3

Judge fairly-ish

The described partner confirms or denies each answer. Partial credit exists and is negotiated loudly - that's a feature.

step 4

Crown and rematch

Track scores across game nights. A running championship gives ordinary evenings playoff stakes.

๐ŸŒฑ round 1: origins

  1. 1. Where exactly did we first meet?
  2. 2. What was I wearing (close counts)?
  3. 3. Who texted first, and what did it say?
  4. 4. What was our first meal together?
  5. 5. What did I tell my best friend after our first date?
  6. 6. What almost went wrong early on?
  7. 7. When did we become 'official' - date required?
  8. 8. What was our first argument about?
  9. 9. Which song was playing in an early memorable moment?
  10. 10. What did you think my deal-breaker would be?

โญ round 2: favorites

  1. 1. My comfort food?
  2. 2. My all-time movie?
  3. 3. The song I play on repeat lately?
  4. 4. My dream city?
  5. 5. My favorite thing we own together?
  6. 6. My coffee/tea order, exactly?
  7. 7. My favorite way to waste an hour?
  8. 8. The compliment I love receiving most?
  9. 9. My favorite of your outfits?
  10. 10. My current favorite person outside us (pets eligible)?

๐Ÿ” round 3: habits & quirks

  1. 1. What do I do when I can't sleep?
  2. 2. My most-checked app?
  3. 3. The chore I always dodge?
  4. 4. My weirdest food combination?
  5. 5. What do I hum or say without noticing?
  6. 6. My morning routine, in order?
  7. 7. The thing I always lose?
  8. 8. My autopilot snack?
  9. 9. What do I do when I'm nervous?
  10. 10. My most-used emoji?

๐Ÿ’› round 4: feelings

  1. 1. When do I feel most loved by you?
  2. 2. My biggest everyday fear?
  3. 3. What instantly calms me down?
  4. 4. The accomplishment I'm proudest of?
  5. 5. What stresses me that I downplay?
  6. 6. My love language, in your words?
  7. 7. When did you last see me truly happy?
  8. 8. What compliment do I not believe about myself?
  9. 9. Who do I call first with big news (after you)?
  10. 10. What am I secretly sentimental about?

๐Ÿ”ฎ round 5: future

  1. 1. My dream trip for us?
  2. 2. Where do I see us living in ten years?
  3. 3. One thing on my bucket list?
  4. 4. The skill I keep saying I'll learn?
  5. 5. My retirement fantasy?
  6. 6. The next big thing I'm excited about?
  7. 7. What tradition do I want us to start?
  8. 8. My dream pet situation?
  9. 9. What would I do with a surprise free year?
  10. 10. What do I hope never changes about us?

variations & upgrades

double-date showdown

Two couples, one host round each, whiteboard answers held up simultaneously. The couple with the most confirmed answers wins dinner paid by the losers - the greatest stakes in amateur trivia.

the interactive version

Our 'How Well Do You Know Your Partner?' game runs this exact format with automatic scoring, verdicts, and a share button - one tap, no paper.

good questions, answered

Questions with confirmable answers about each other: origins (where we met), favorites (my exact coffee order), habits, feelings (when I feel most loved), and future dreams. All 50 above are judge-friendly - the described partner confirms each answer.

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