1) Practice active listening without judgment. 2) Challenge your own assumptions and biases. 3) Show empathy and try to understand her perspective. 4) Be willing to try new experiences together. 5) Express vulnerability and share your feelings openly. 6) Acknowledge and validate her emotions. 7) Be open to feedback and willing to change. 8) Practice forgiveness and let go of past grievances. 9) Cultivate curiosity about her thoughts and feelings. 10) Embrace compromise and find win-win solutions.