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How can I support my girlfriend if she is feeling sad, even when she claims otherwise?

A person comforting their girlfriend who is feeling sad, with the girlfriend showing a brave face while the partner senses her true emotions.

Answer from our relationship expert:

Supporting a girlfriend who's feeling sad but not admitting it requires sensitivity and patience: 1. Pay attention to non-verbal cues that might indicate sadness. 2. Create a safe, non-judgmental space for her to express her feelings. 3. Offer your presence and support without pressuring her to talk. 4. Engage in activities she enjoys to help lift her mood. 5. Express your love and appreciation for her regularly. 6. Be patient and give her time to open up when she's ready. 7. Encourage healthy habits like exercise and proper sleep. 8. Offer to listen if she wants to talk, without trying to "fix" everything. 9. Suggest professional help if her sadness seems prolonged or severe. 10. Take care of your own emotional well-being to be better equipped to support her.

"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved." - Victor Hugo

Guidance & steps forward:

Respect her choice if she's not ready to discuss her feelings. Use "I" statements to express your concerns, like "I've noticed you seem quieter lately. I'm here if you want to talk." Avoid making assumptions about her feelings or pressuring her to admit she's sad. Show support through small acts of kindness. Be consistent in your support, as healing takes time. Educate yourself about depression and its symptoms. If you're worried about her safety, don't hesitate to reach out to professionals or trusted friends/family. Remember, you can offer support, but you're not responsible for "fixing" her emotions.

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Updated: 

August 8, 2024

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