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What are some effective approaches for initiating conversation with a girl on Instagram for the first time?

Answer from our relationship expert:

Making a good impression with your first message on Instagram is crucial for sparking interest and building rapport. Start by personalizing your message to show genuine interest in her profile or recent activity. Keep the tone friendly and respectful, avoiding overly flirtatious or generic messages. Ask open-ended questions that invite her to share more about herself and her interests. Reference mutual connections or shared interests to establish common ground and facilitate further conversation. Be patient and respectful of her response, understanding that not everyone may be receptive to your initial message.

Craft a personalized and engaging first message that shows genuine interest and respect. Keep the tone friendly and avoid overly flirtatious or generic messages.


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April 10, 2024

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