What counts as the start date - first date, first kiss, or 'official'?

Couples genuinely split on this, which makes it a great debate. The common convention is the 'we're official' conversation. Power move: calculate all three and celebrate all three.

Why do couples celebrate 100-day milestones?

The tradition is big in Korean dating culture - 100 days, 200, 300, and so on - and it spread globally because it solves a real problem: anniversaries are twelve months apart, and love likes more frequent checkpoints. Day-counting gives you a reason to celebrate every few months.

Can we get this as a widget on our phones?

That's exactly what the Flamme app does - your days-together count as a home-screen widget on both phones, synced, with streaks for your daily questions next to it. This web tool saves to each device separately.

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days together calculator 💞

Anniversaries come once a year; the number itself grows daily. Enter your start date, get your exact count, and find out how close you are to day 500, day 1000, and the next excuse to celebrate.

get your number 👇

when did you two become official?

enter your anniversary and get your number 💛

Saved on this device. The Flamme app puts this number in a widget on both your home screens - streaks included.

good questions, answered

Enter the date you became official above - the tool counts every day from then to today and keeps counting each time you return. It also projects your next milestones: the next 100-day mark, day 500, day 1000, and your upcoming anniversary.

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the numbers are the easy part

Flamme AI is a free relationship coach - for the conversation the tool can't have for you.

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put the number on your home screens

Flamme's widgets show your days together on both phones - synced, with streaks and moods beside it.

scan to get the app 📱

Point your camera at the code - it opens the App Store or Google Play on your phone.

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