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Couple Games ยท Long-Distance

long-distance couple games ๐ŸŒ

Date night doesn't need the same room. Eight games that work over video call, voice, or text - with notes on exactly how to run each one across the miles.

questions written for the distance

The full Long-Distance deck from our question game - fourteen questions that only make sense with miles between you.

  • What's the first thing we're doing the next time we're in the same room?
  • What time of day do you miss me hardest?
  • What's something about your daily life right now that I can't picture, and can you describe it?
  • Which is worse: the goodbye at the airport or the empty feeling the day after?
  • What little thing do you do to feel close to me when we can't talk?
  • If I could teleport to you for ten minutes today, what would we do?
  • What's your favorite message I've ever sent you? Go find it.
  • How has the distance changed what you appreciate about us?
  • What's a place in your city you're saving to show me in person?
  • When we finally close the distance, what's the first boring domestic thing you're excited about?
  • What do you wish I asked you about more often?
  • What's our reunion tradition going to be?
  • Honestly: what's the hardest part of the distance for you this month?
  • What's one ritual we could start tonight that's just ours, distance-proof?

good questions, answered

Anything conversation-based translates perfectly: question games, never have I ever, would you rather, 21 questions, and quiz games like 'how well do you know your partner'. Physical games adapt too - charades works on camera. All eight games on this page are free in your browser.

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Flamme's daily questions, moods, and widgets were designed by a long-distance couple's needs first. Answer whenever your day allows - reveal together.

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