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Questions for Couples

28 fun questions for couples 🎉

The lightweight deck: silly hypotheticals, playful debates, and questions with no wrong answers - only funny ones. For car rides, queues, and dinners that need rescuing from work talk.

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If we opened a tiny shop together, what would we sell?

28 cards in this deck

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  1. 1. If we opened a tiny shop together, what would we sell?
  2. 2. What's the most irrational hill you will die on?
  3. 3. Which fictional couple are we most like on a good day? And on a bad day?
  4. 4. If your love had a warning label, what would it say?
  5. 5. What song would play every time you entered a room, if life had a soundtrack?
  6. 6. What's the weirdest food combination you genuinely enjoy?
  7. 7. If we swapped phones for a day, what's the first thing you'd check?
  8. 8. What would your five-year-old self think is the coolest thing about your life now?
  9. 9. If animals could talk, which species would be the rudest?
  10. 10. What tiny crime would you commit if it were legal for one day?
  11. 11. Which of my habits would you narrate in a nature documentary voice?
  12. 12. If we were a two-person band, what's our name and who plays what?
  13. 13. What's your most useless talent?
  14. 14. If you had to eat one meal every day forever, what are we cooking?
  15. 15. What's a conspiracy theory you'd start about us?
  16. 16. Which emoji do I overuse, and what should my punishment be?
  17. 17. If our pets (real or future) could review us, what would the one-star review say?
  18. 18. What reality show would we absolutely win? Which would we get eliminated from first?
  19. 19. What's the pettiest reason you've ever disliked someone?
  20. 20. If you could teleport anywhere for exactly one hour today, where are we going?
  21. 21. If your best friend described me, what would they get wrong?
  22. 22. What's the most on-brand thing I've ever done?
  23. 23. Which household object would you be, and why that one?
  24. 24. What's a hill from your childhood you'd still die on (cereal rankings count)?
  25. 25. If we had a couple's mascot, what animal is it and what's its name?
  26. 26. What's the funniest thing you've overheard about us?
  27. 27. Which app on my phone confuses you the most?
  28. 28. If our life together were a sitcom, what's this week's episode title?

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