Top Trending Apps for Couples After Official Shut Down: Secure & Private Alternatives For Relationships
- Akriti - Team Flamme
- 3 days ago
- 4 min read
With the Official App closing its doors on May 9, millions of couples are racing to find a private, reliable replacement. Security is paramount when it comes to sharing your most intimate chats, photos, and memories—no one wants their love life exposed or lost forever. Below, we’ve rounded up the five most secure couples apps you can switch to today, each vetted for end-to-end encryption, robust backup options, and privacy-first features.

5 Most Secure Couples Apps
Flamme - The Couples App
We might be slightly partial in saying this, but if you're seeking an alternative to Official with a more lively vibe and equally remarkable features, then Flamme is sure to grab your attention. Both apps provide couples with a daily question to answer together, uncovering new and fascinating thoughts, beliefs, and preferences. On the Flamme app, these questions are categorized into areas like communication, sex & intimacy, work, family, and fun, covering a broad spectrum of topics that couples might not typically discuss. The best part is you can't view your partner's answer until you've responded, fostering curiosity and ensuring both partners are proactive in sharing. Moreover, both apps excel at making discovery and communication enjoyable with quiz games that couples can play anytime to connect with each other.
Unique Features:
AI Love Coach: Receive personalized assistance at any time, day or night.
Feelings & In The Mood: Monitor your partner's emotions throughout the day.
Date Ideas & Planner: Discover a handpicked selection of exciting date night activities and plan the perfect day for them.
Hearts & Farts: Send quick notifications to let your partner know they're on your mind (guaranteed to make them smile!😀).
Cost: $9.99/month or $29.99/year
Agape
Agape, aptly named after the Greek word for unconditional, selfless love, is an app created to help you focus on your most significant relationships. By offering daily questions and memories, you and your partner can make each day interesting with meaningful discussions and by sharing photos to celebrate special moments.
Unique Features:
Inclusive for All Relationships: Agape sets itself apart by supporting a variety of relationships, allowing you to connect with friends and family in your network, not just couples.
Discussion Cards: If you and your partner want interesting topics to talk about during meals, Agape offers Discussion Cards that you can explore and discuss without using the app.
Cost: $39.99/year
Evergreen
Relationships are frequently compared to plants, as both need care to grow! Evergreen adopts this metaphor by offering couples a digital plant to care for together. By dedicating time to your relationship through daily discovery questions and engaging in relationship-building games, your plant will thrive.
Unique Features:
Multiple Daily Questions: Couples receive 4 daily questions in 4 categories: water, growth, light, and roots. The water and growth categories feature questions aimed at strengthening your relationship with your partner, while the light and roots categories are geared towards self-discovery.
Quote Inspiration: For those who appreciate quotes, Evergreen provides motivational insights, like today’s quote: “The best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.” This is particularly appropriate for an app that supports couples in becoming their best selves!
Cost: $9.99/month or $49.99/year
Lovewick
Lovewick is a free app that assists you in keeping track of all the important aspects of your relationship, from the day you first met and other memorable events to details like your partner's shoe size, blood type, and favorite comfort food. Like Official, it provides discovery questions for you and your partner to continue learning about each other. However, instead of offering a daily preselected question, Lovewick includes a variety of Discovery Card Decks ideal for conversations in person or over the phone.
Unique Features:
Inspiration Hub: Provides a diverse selection of date ideas suited to your preferences. Whether you want to be frugal, enjoy staying at home, are highly active, or are fond of DIY activities, there are numerous dates to choose from and add to your wishlist.
Forget-Me-Not Page: A handy reference tool to help you remember all the small details about your partner.
Cost: Free
Between
Between focuses on cherishing quality time together and appreciating those special moments. It gives couples a dedicated space to focus on their relationship, featuring options like a photo collection and shared calendars. The private chat and call features are especially useful for long-distance couples who require a reliable means of communication. Furthermore, the app includes its own charming emojis and gif selfies to enhance the experience.
Unique Features:
Private Chat: A designated space for personal discussions.
Shared Calendar: Conveniently organize date nights and various events.
Cost: Lifetime ($26.99)

The clock is ticking—Official App shuts down May 9. Don’t risk losing your love story or having your private moments exposed. Switch to Flamme App today for industry-leading encryption, seamless migration, and all the fun features you need to keep the spark alive.
Download Flamme App now and stay secure, stay connected, and stay in love.