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Meaningful questions, milestone widgets, couple games, and an AI love coach. Free to start on iPhone and Android.

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The Flamme app - daily discovery questions, the Flamme Guru AI love coach, and long-distance connection widgets
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Tonight’s question

Every day you both get the same question. Answers open once you’ve both replied. Try today’s here.

If you could relive one ordinary day from your childhood, which would you pick?

The drift

Most couples don’t fight. They just stop asking.

Work, kids, time zones. The chat fills up with logistics and the real questions wait for a weekend that never comes. Flamme puts one back in every day.

How it works

Answer apart. Open together.

You both get the same question. Answer whenever your day allows. Nothing opens until you both have, so nobody shapes their answer around the other’s.

Between answers

Your streak lives on both home screens.

Days together, your streak, how your partner feels right now, and their time when you’re apart. Change your mood and it updates on their phone.

Flamme Guru

An AI love coach that knows your story.

Ask about the argument you keep having or the date you can’t plan. Guru answers with something you can try tonight.

Couples who stayed close

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Discovery Questions

200K+

Happy Partners

4M+

Emotions Exchanged

“With kids and busy days, Flamme gives us a quick moment to reflect and feel connected - even when life gets chaotic.”
Emily & MarkoEmily & Marko8 months in love
“As a long-distance couple, Flamme helps us open up about things we wouldn't normally talk about. It makes sensitive topics feel natural.”
Margot & JackMargot & Jack3 years in love
“We use Flamme every morning - it helps us ask questions we wouldn't usually think to ask. We're now engaged, and I truly believe Flamme helped us get here.”
Ruslan & IkerRuslan & Iker5 years in love
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Tonight’s question

If you could relive one ordinary day from your childhood, which would you pick?

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